The 2023 theme for Women’s History Month is "Celebrating Women Who Tell Our Stories."

George House Trust Positive Speaker and HIV activist Agatha Phiri is sharing her story to inspire others and help break down HIV stigma and discrimination. 

I’ve managed to build a home from the bricks that HIV stigma and HIV discrimination threw at me. This home is now a safe space for women living with HIV called Agatha’s Space. I am also a positive speaker for HIV charity George House Trust and help people to understand me and my HIV through my volunteer work.

I have turned into a confident woman who is not scared to take a step to challenge everything about my HIV, my future and my goals.

Living with HIV has made me understand love. After going through lots of rejections and betrayals I now have a handsome, loving man who accepts me with my HIV.

When it comes to HIV, we talk about the negatives a lot – things like stigma, discrimination, betrayal and more. But over time I have learnt to find solace in my strength and solace in the positive things HIV has contributed to my life.

HIV has given me a different meaning in life. It has given me a reason to fight for my rights as a human being and fight for equality.

HIV has given me my dream life because I got tired of fear. I am bold, confident and ambitious. I said NO! to fear.

If you’ve had enough of the negatives HIV can bring, then take a bold step and challenge them.

Fight. Fight, fight and fight until there is nothing left to fight for.

Whilst it’s true that HIV has sometimes given me lemons, I have learnt to turn them into lemonade to protect myself, my mental health and to be an example of how women living with HIV should be loved and treated.

Agatha Phiri 16th March 2023  

The 2023 theme for Women’s History Month is "Celebrating Women Who Tell Our Stories."

HIV activist Ana Oliveira is sharing her story to inspire others and help to break down HIV stigma and discrimination.

Here is part 1 where Ana receives her diagnosis and experiences HIV stigma for the first time. 

*TW* This article contains references to depression, PTSD and suicidal thoughts. 

I will never forget the 3rd of January 2019. It was a miserable dark and rainy day. My car broke down, I had an appointment with my son to be seen at the eye clinic. Around 9:30am, I got a call from a private number.

“Hi, can I speak with Ana Oliveira?”

“Ana speaking. How can I help you?”

“It’s Julie from the Health Clinic, we got your blood results back. Is there any chance you could pop in today?”

“Is everything okay? Can you tell me over the phone?“

“I’m afraid not, love. Can you bring someone with you? “

As soon I heard this I knew it was the worst. I knew that what I feared the most had eventually become a reality. No one is going to ask me to bring someone with me to tell me that I have a simple STD.

At the clinic Julie said: “I’m sorry love, I don’t have good news. Your HIV test came back positive. “

It felt like it was a death sentence. It was devastating, not only because of the illness itself, but also how I became HIV positive. My first instinctive thought was my children. If I die, what about them? They can’t live without me. Why me? I was crying…Remember they advised me to take someone with me. I took my little son and he turned to me and asked: “Mummy why are you crying? “ I said “Mummy is going to be ok, don’t worry!”

Julie was lovely, very compassionate. She said: “Ana, this is no longer a death sentence, you can go and live the same long life as someone who is HIV negative as long as you agree with treatment”. I replied straight away, ”Of course I want to start treatment, no questions here.” I knew that HIV is no longer a death sentence. I believe in science. But the way our mind works when it’s faced with fear…it’s hard to explain.

On the same day, I saw a second nurse to take bloods for the resistance test yet she made a very stigmatising comment: 

“It’s unfortunate, from all the STDs you could have contracted, you chose HIV.”

An awkward silence filled the room. I couldn’t even answer back. Then realisation sunk in…HIV was not going to kill me but the stigma attached to it could. 

The stigma that I’ve faced has shaped my journey, living with HIV and my perceptions about it. I came to lose myself, the one that I was so proud of. The one who had never looked differently to a person living with HIV was now living with this internalised stigma and I hated myself. 

In the first year following my diagnosis I was rushing and living in survival mode, but still I managed to buy my house so if something was to happen to me, my children would have a house to live and they could stay together. I knew they would be supported by my family and friends. 

With HIV, I came to meet severe depression and I was eventually diagnosed with PTSD and I almost committed suicide. In reality, I didn’t want to die I just wanted to find a way to remove the pain. 

My friends never realised that I was depressed, I was off work for long periods of time but pretending I was taking a career break. But with my children, it was a different story, they knew that I was mentally unwell although they didn’t know the real reason. 

I started counselling through George House Trust but soon gave up because I thought I would be okay. George House Trust were amazing, always checking on me, reassuring me that they were there for me if I ever needed them.

After another episode of depression, I eventually came to the realisation that I needed help and I started therapy through occupational health at work. 

Read part 2 of Ana's story here. 

Ana Oliveira

We're recruiting for our Manchester Pride 2023 Intern with the University of Manchester! 

We asked Eve, our Manchester Pride 2022 intern, about her experience...

"My Student Experience Internship at George House Trust has undoubtedly been the highlight of my time at the University of Manchester."

I gained experience and solid examples of work in an industry I’d never been involved in before, and probably would not have had a chance to learn about if not for this internship.

If you think you might be interested in marketing and events planning, I cannot recommend this job enough. You need to think on your feet and come up with fun and creative ideas. Whatever you put in, George House Trust will give you back tenfold, and I personally found this an amazing way to learn.

This is a real stand-out example of work experience and the breadth of the job gives you so many great stories to use in later interviews, particularly to show employers your values and character – this is not just a rainbow parade, it is a platform for people living with HIV to feel valued and celebrated in the community.

If you’re not familiar with George House Trust (I wasn’t!) ask around, and you will see how respected their name is and how valuable the support they offer is to people who need it.

For me, highlights of the internship were creating a social media campaign for George House Trust’s presence at Pride, working with external graphic designers to do so; content creation to raise awareness of HIV; and, of course, the Pride Parade itself.

I was fortunate enough to work with amazing drag artists and DJs from Manchester to put on a fantastic show, and it was evident how much this meant to George House Trust’s service users."

"If you want an internship that’s more than filling out spreadsheets, will give you a taste of marketing and event planning, and, most importantly, is hugely fulfilling and really matters, this is the job for you."

Eve Morrison, February 15th 2023

Not Counted: Clinical Trials Of New HIV Treatments Are Failing Women

A recent article reported that The low representation of women in clinical trials has led to some efficacy and safety differences between men and women being missed, reports Dr Shuang Zhou of the United States Food and Drug Administration (FDA). African-American women were particularly underrepresented in clinical trials of new antiretrovirals.

Women make up the majority of people with HIV globally, but there is a chronic underrepresentation of cisgender women in antiretroviral clinical trials. This lack of representation results in sex-based differences being unknown. Some side effects, such as weight gain and rashes, have been reported more frequently by female patients.

You can read the full article here.